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From the Desk of Rabbi Stephanie S. Aaron | Congregation Chaverim

Shabbat Shalom

From the Desk of Rabbi Stephanie S. Aaron | Congregation Chaverim

Parashat Pinchas: What’s in Your Name?

We know his name; it is the title of this parashah, Pinchas! But what about their names? The five daughters of Tzelophechad: Machlah, Noa, Choglah, Milcah and Tirtzah who draw near to Moshe and stand before him, before Eleazar, the Cohain, before the princes and the entire congregation at the entrance to the Tent of Meeting. Who are they? What is their lineage? From where do they acquire the holy chutzpah to draw near, to stand before Moshe, before Eleazar, before the princes of the tribes, before the entire congregation? They are the five daughters of Tzelophechad, son of Chefer, son of Gilad, son of Machir, son of Manasseh, from the families of Manasseh, son of Joseph. They can surely claim an exalted lineage, but they are not sons and they draw near with a clear message. What do their names indicate about their courage and resolution to stand before their community? Chazal, our sages, teach us that our parents become n’vi’im, prophets, when naming us as our names will become important guides as we come to understand and live out our soul’s purposes in this world. We only know their father, Tzelophechad’s name, their mother’s name is not given. Machlah, entreaty, Noa, movement, Choglah, partridge, Milcah, queen, and Tirtzah, willing; as one, they move forward, to entreat, soft-winged like a bird, with their queenly presence, as one, they willingly come forward to stand at the entrance of  the Ohel Mo’ed, the Tent of Meeting.

 

They say, “Our father died in the wilderness, and he was not among the congregation that joined against Gd, the congregation of Korach; he had no sons. Why should the name of our father be lost among his family because he had no sons? Please give us our just inheritance.” 

 

These daughters, tikravna, drew near. The language of the Torah helps us understand the very nature of their plea; they drew near. The root of the word, korbanot, offerings, is the same as their drawing near, kof, reish, bet; teaching us that their drawing near is rooted in the same place of soul as the drawing near to the Holy One was for our ancients. The entire system of offerings, often translated as sacrifices, was based in the desire to draw near, to come close to Gd. These sisters drew near with wisdom and the law was changed; they inherited their father’s portion.

 

How do we as modern Jews interpret the ancient messages and meanings of our holy text? How do our Hebrew names give us the holy chutzpah to stand before Moshe Rabbeinu, Moses our teacher, Eleazar, the Cohein, the leaders of our tribes, and our gathered community of Jews? Let us draw near and stand at the entrance of the Tent of Meeting and together live Torah!

In this week’s Torah portion, Pinchas, we encounter the powerful story of the daughters of Zelophehad—five courageous sisters who “draw near” to Moses and the leaders of Israel to advocate for their rightful inheritance. Their act of stepping forward, of coming close with clarity and purpose, brings about real change and sets a precedent for justice in our tradition. At the Tucson J, we are inspired by this model of sacred closeness—of drawing near to community, to tradition, and to one another. Our mission is rooted in creating a space where people feel empowered to engage, connect, and be heard—where every individual, like the daughters of Zelophehad, has the opportunity to help shape the future for themselves, our community, and the world around us.

 

Last Friday, over 60 young Jewish adults “drew near” to one another with a Shabbat Happy Hour at the Tucson J pool. The group began the evening with a casual kiddush before enjoying a potluck-style dinner with drinks and conversation flowing, and ended the (very warm!) evening with time in the pool. It was special to enjoy time “after hours” together, see old friends, and connect with new ones. 

On Tuesday, Camp J Maccabiah kicked off with the entire camp dividing into two teams – Purple and Teal – “drawing near” to teammates and with each camper conjuring their own courage and resilience! The competition was fierce but friendly all week long and there was no shortage of team ruach (spirit) with chants and cheers echoing throughout the facility at all times, save for “Silent Lunch.” Competitions included sports from Gaga to Potato Sack Races to Relays of all kinds, water games like Bucket Brigade, Balloon Toss, and Biggest Belly Flop, food competitions like Apple Bobbing, Peanut Butter Whistling, and “Chopped”, plus Kahoots trivia and Banner and Mascot Making, and so much more. And of course, teams collected sportsmanship points for being kind and compassionate competitors. In the end, the Teal took the win with a total score of 4,076 points to Purple’s 3,736. Join us in wishing all Camp J campers a Mazal Tov Godol (big congratulations) for their outstanding effort, and especially our Camp J staff for creating such a memorable and fun-filled experience for all. 

 

The week truly set the mood as we prepare to host the 2025 JCC Maccabi Games in just over one week! We are proud to bring this historic event to Tucson and welcome thousands—between athletes, coaches, delegation heads, spectators, host families, and others—to “draw near” to community, Jewish Peoplehood, friendship, and fun. It’s not too late to join in as a volunteer or spectator—the deadline to register is Monday, July 21. Please also be advised that the J has limited operating hours during The Games; see our hours page here for more information. We hope to see you there and are so grateful to all of the people who have helped bring Maccabi to life and the many hundreds of community members volunteering their time the week of. 

 

As we welcome Shabbat, we invite you to consider who and what you are drawing near to and how that holy closeness has an impact on your own life and those around you. Shabbat Shalom.

 

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