From the Desk of Jennifer Lorch Selco | Sr. Director of Jewish Living + Engagement
In this week’s Torah portion, Shelach (Hebrew for “Send”), Moses sends 12 spies to explore the Land of IsIrael. Ten of the spies convince the people that it will be too difficult to conquer the land. God responds to their lack of confidence by punishing them with 40 years of wandering in the wilderness. God also commands the Israelites to put fringes on the ends of their clothing.
Reflecting on this week’s portion and why the people were punished, Mijal Bitton, spiritual leader, scholar, and author, shares, “Instead of thinking, We can do hard things because God is with us, they thought, We should let God do everything—because we’re too small to even try. When they saw giants, they could have been inspired to grow taller. Instead, they chose to become grasshoppers. The tragedy of Shelach isn’t fear—it’s smallness. It’s the refusal to step into a kind of life that demands everything of us—and, in doing so, can elevate us.”
Throughout our lives, and particularly during challenging moments, we have the choice—both as individuals and collectively as a People—do we see ourselves as empowered and strong or do we cower inside? How we perceive ourselves will be the image we project to those around us.
As we enter Shabbat, I invite you to think about how you want to be perceived and to step into the space that Bitton says “demands everything of us.” And, may the Jewish People, during a time when it feels like we are expected to fearfully shrink to the circumstances around us, continue to proudly rise up with pride as a diverse community, hopeful for a brighter and more peaceful tomorrow. Please join me in a prayer for peace and the return of the hostages who remain in Gaza. May the One who makes peace, bring peace down to us and Israel. Shabbat Shalom.

Each week, as we welcome Shabbat, we take a moment to pause, reflect, and reconnect—with ourselves, our community, and our tradition. At the Tucson J, our mission is to create a vibrant, inclusive space that nurtures individual growth, strengthens Jewish identity, and builds meaningful connections for people across the community. We believe in our collective strength and in each person’s capacity to grow into the best version of themselves. This week’s Torah portion, Shelach, challenges us to consider what happens when fear outweighs faith—and with camp season in full swing, we have the honor of watching the foundation of our community—the youth of the J, push through challenges, learn new things, and reach new heights!
This week at Camp J, we tried a new-this-summer sport, Water Polo with Ryan Perham, assistant coach for the Tucson J Stingrays Swim Team and swim school instructor, made a splash at our re-opened SplashPad and the Oro Valley Aquatics Center, and enjoyed water games in the Grassy Area. Continuing the theme of water, middle schoolers in our Tiyul Unit had a two-day overnight camping extravaganza to Pecan Lake, Paqua Park, and Hurricane Harbor!
Other camp highlights from the week included dressing up for Pirate Day on Wednesday (with a hilarious costume contest), being wow-ed during a special Magic Show by Mr. B, and exploring the Jewish Value of Kavod (respect). Participants in Taglit, Summer Taglit, and Gesher stepped onto the dance floor with confidence in today’s Summer Concert Series, this time with local rock n’ roll band, Pork Torta!
Friendships are made and new lessons are learned every day at Camp J, and through the year in our Children + Youth programs, but parents know, some of the best learning also happens at home. Check out this new blog post from Joline Riddle, Sr. Director of Early Childhood Education.
How did you learn and grow at the J this week? Where did you experience a moment of leaning into your strengths to live your live a little “bigger”? Wishing you peace, rest, and the confidence to step into the week ahead with faith, knowing our community at the J is behind you!
Reminders, Resources + Learning
Each week we share resources for more learning:
This week’s resources:
- Caleb at the Crossroads by Rabbi Dr. Tzvi Hersh Weinreb (Orthodox Union)
- Seeing Beneath The Surface by Rabbi Neal J. Loevinger (My Jewish Learning)
Last week’s resources:
- Parshat Beha’alotcha: A Bluegrass Song About the Israelites in the Desert (BimBam)
- Body Language by Dr. Amy Kalmanofsky (Jewish Theological Seminary)
Is there a topic you’d like to learn more about? Email Jenn Selco with requests.