From the Desk of Jennifer Lorch Selco | Sr. Director of Jewish Living + Engagement
Our parsha this week is Vayechi, Hebrew for “And [Jacob] Lived.” Joseph promises Jacob that he will bury him in Canaan. On his deathbed, Jacob blesses his grandchildren, Ephraim and Menashe, and then blesses his sons with the legacies he hopes they each carry on for future generations. Jacob recites the Shema prayer, dies, and is embalmed. Joseph affirms to his brothers that he has forgiven them for their misdeeds. Ending the first book of the Torah, Beresheet, Joseph dies with the request that his bones will be brought to Canaan in the future, thus setting the stage for our story next week to begin in Egypt.
As we reflect on this week’s portion, we are reminded of the Jewish value of continuity, l’dor v’dor—from generation to generation—and more poignantly, our connection to one another, across time and space.
Rabbi Mijal Bitton shares a beautiful reflection about this week’s Torah portion, especially as it relates to “the surge,” rise in Jewish engagement post 10/7, particularly those who did not feel engaged or connected prior to Hamas’ attack in Israel. She shares, “Jacob lies on his deathbed. A midrash imagines the scene: as Jacob lay dying, his sons proclaimed their faith with the words Shema Yisrael. The sons say: Shema Yisrael—Hear oh Israel, hear our father; Hashem Elokeinu, Hashem Echad—the Lord is our God, the Lord is One. These words are so familiar and beloved by us that we forget how radical and how consequential they are.”
“The Shema binds three things: loyalty to a parent, faith in God, and loyalty to one another (expressed through “our God”). It binds faith to belonging. You can struggle with your siblings. You can struggle with God. You can doubt, question, and feel uncertain. But you can never opt out of your parents. You cannot stop being Jacob’s child.”
“The Surge is not Jews encountering Judaism for the first time. It’s Jews remembering something they didn’t know they’d forgotten. It’s a form of tacit, inherited knowledge that resurfaces when the conditions that enabled forgetting are stripped away. October 7 shattered the illusion that our deepest commitments are endlessly optional. And that recognition, once it happens, resists silence—once you hear your father calling your name.”
And so we ask ourselves: How am I connected already? In what ways do I want to be connected? How will I strengthen my connection community this year?
At the end of reading a book of Torah, it is customary to say, “hazaak, hazak, v’nithazek—be strong, be strong, and will be strengthened.” May we continue to grow from strength to strength as individuals and as a community.

At the Tucson J, this value of l’dor v’dor—from generation to generation—comes to life every day. We see it as grandparents pick up their children from our Early Childhood Education program, in PJ Library events that celebrate Jewish culture and tradition across generations of families, through the Better Together program that connects BBYO teens and their elders at Handmaker Home for the Aging, in Fitness + Wellness and Sports + Rec programs designed for every age and stage, and in the Arts + Culture events that create dialogue that builds bridges across our community and beyond.
This week at the J we experienced the magic of l’dor v’dor as we made our way through the final week of Winter Camp, with fun and adventure as Camp J kids and tweens made memories on and off campus guided by their older counselors (some of whom, like Tyler who made the news this week, began as campers themselves!). With field trips including Sabino Canyon, Elevate Trampoline Park, Kitt Peak, Funtastiks, the Botanical Gardens and more, plus STEM learning, Gaga, art, tikkun olam, cooking, and plenty of time on the playground and in the gym, campers fostered independence, made new friends, and honed in on special skills, building a strong foundation for lifelong learning and leadership! Don’t miss out on registration for Summer Camp J, opening this Sunday January 4 for members, and Sunday, January 11 for guests and learn more here about our program.
Little ones in Early Childhood Education rang in the New Year literally, with a noisy parade of shakers and musical instruments! Enrollment renewal for existing ECE families opens this Sunday, and new student enrollment opens in February—save your child’s spot for our award-winning program!
In Disability Program Services, we began the year flexing creative skills with a Picasso art project and in theatre class. Make sure to grab your 2026 DPS calendar at the JShop! Proceeds go to support the program and when you shop at the JShop, you help participant interns learn valuable vocational skills!
As we move forward together, may we continue to learn from one another, celebrate each stage of life, and pass our values on with intention and joy. We look forward to all that’s ahead in 2026 at the Tucson J. Shabbat shalom and Happy New Year.
Reminders, Resources + Learning
Each week we share resources for more learning:
This week’s resources:
- Carrying On After The Golden Age by Rabbi Jonathan Spira-Savett (My Jewish Learning)
- Vayechi: Jacob Blesses his Sons, in Rhyme! by BimBam
Last week’s resources:
- Rescue in a Fractured World by Rabbi Lea Mühlstein (reformjudaism.org)
- Preparing For Exile by Rabbi Yitzchok A. Breitowitz (My Jewish Learning)
Is there a topic you’d like to learn more about? Email Jenn Selco with requests.