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The Arroyo family
Four years ago, Melissa Arroyo was handed a diagnosis that would reshape how she thought about her daughter’s future. Her daughter, Valentina, had autism—and with it came a clear message from doctors: she would need the right environments to truly thrive. School, childcare, even something as quintessential as summer camp, would have to be chosen with care, intention, and trust.
For many families, summer camp is a given. For Melissa, it was a question mark.
Today, that question has an answer. For the last several summers, Valentina has spent her days at Camp J, swimming, playing, and making friends just like any other camper. What once felt uncertain has become a place of belonging, growing, and thriving—at the J, Valentina is not defined by her diagnosis but reaching beyond it.
Melissa and Valentina’s journey is not just a story about one child at camp. It is a window into what becomes possible when the right support systems are in place—and why access to them matters for every family.
“Camp J is a place where every kid, regardless of ability, is empowered to grow and learn in a community-centered environment,” said Cass Johnson, the director of camp and youth at the Tucson J. “Our camp is focused on fostering independence and helping kids to get out of their comfort zone, so they leave with more confidence than when they first arrived.”
Melissa first heard about Camp J from other families in the community. “I asked a lot more questions and I visited the facilities, and what we noticed was that we saw a lot of different types of families… It made us very comfortable as a family to consider bringing our daughter here.”
Melissa reflected that Camp J provided Valentina with the appropriate level of support and attention from counselors, allowing her “to be the child that none of us knew that she could be.”
Camp J takes incredible care in staffing and training counselors, ensuring that campers can get one-on-one support if needed. “Accessibility and inclusion are central to Camp J. We think of families as partners, because when families and camp are aligned, we can create a safer and more successful environment for kids to thrive,” said Cass.
“Every day, my daughter would come home and would have done something different. It was very clear that the program was developed and built specifically for all these kids, giving them the ability to not just do things that they love to do or like to do, but actually try new things.”
Camp J is filled with activities like swimming, cooking, sports, art, and wilderness, allowing campers to engage with their favorites, while having space to explore and embark on new adventures.
As camp went on, Melissa watched Valentina blossom. The family was working on improving her storytelling skills, and at Camp J, Valentina made incredible progress. “[Valentina] would come home with stories all the time. She would know exactly what she was doing during the day… It was a first experience for us being able to see how animated she could get and actually articulate things that she did and was excited about,” Melissa said.
Ultimately, Camp J has given Melissa and her family the one thing that every parent wants—peace of mind. “As a parent of a child who has [autism], to be able to know and feel safe when we leave her and not feel the constant anxiety of wondering how she’s doing, how people are treating her, is she enjoying herself? We always felt safe knowing that she was going to be taken care of and included… because of who she’s being cared for by at the J.”
All children deserve an experience like Valentina’s, filled with the support and space needed to flourish all summer long and to take those skills and memories with them when the camp season ends. The J’s Annual Send a Kid to Camp campaign makes that possible. Donations provide scholarships for those in need, as well as help to make important investments in staff, enhance programming, and contribute to facility updates that make the J a truly child-friendly place.

















