From the Desk of Avey Hanshaw | Tucson J Board Member 

Shabbat Shalom
Shabbat Shalom

From the Desk of Avey Hanshaw | Tucson J Board Member

This week’s Torah portion is parsha Yitro, telling the story in which Moses’ father-in-law (Yitro) visits Moses from Midian and notices that he is the only person who settles other’s disputes in the community. Yitro notices the flaws in this and helps set up a court of magistrates and judges, and later in the portion everyone gathers at Mount Sinai to receive the Ten Commandments through Moses.

 

Usually the second half of this portion is focused on because of its grandeur and high religious importance, but I believe the first part is actually more relevant to our world today. On the surface, Yitro’s questioning of Moses’ system can be interpreted as worry for his wellbeing and burnout from constant work. While that is quite important, I bring up a different interpretation: how disastrous a closed mind can be. Before the court was installed, Moses was the only one to decide right from wrong for all people. In a way, we all somewhat think of ourselves as Moses. It’s easy for us to set the highest standard on our own opinions, values and overall selves while disregarding other philosophies. However, ideas like politics and morality are such spectrums that it’s impossible to find one solution for all people, which is why to this day Torah is consistently debated and discussed with different conclusions each time. If we are all Moses, there is no room for community or learning. This shabbat, I implore you to sit with yourself and think about your identity. Talk to your neighbors. Ask your family questions. Compromise. Perhaps we each carry a sliver of Moses within ourselves, but we can only reach our highest potential by coming together.

This week at the J offered many opportunities to come together and explore new ideas and perspectives, uncover new passions or parts of ourselves, and deepen existing interests. Our mission comes to life only in community—when we lean in to conversation, collaboration, and our collective stories, we grow as individuals each contributing to the strength and vibrancy of our shared present and future. 

 

We began the week in celebration of Tu Bishvat with a PJ Library event Sunday at the beautiful gardens of Tohono Chul, surrounded by trees and nature. Families joined in a meaningful blessing for the trees—shared in English, Hebrew, and Spanish led by PJ parent, David—and spent the afternoon making grass heads, planting parsley, painting, creating with clay, and exploring more hands-on activities. The celebration continued in Early Childhood Education on Monday with a tasty Tu Bishvat Seder and story time. Later in the week, ECE took to the Sculpture Garden with our annual Love of Reading Month book character parade! 

Making the most of the beautiful spring weather, the Stingrays Swim Team had a blast at the Sweetheart Meet! In a smaller, more fun-focused environment, the Stingrays were able to put together some great swims and fun relays! Swimmers had a few best times and a couple of Regional championship qualifying swims, but the highlight of the meet came from the mixed relays, a relatively new offering for swim meets, and the ‘Rays first time competing in them. As a result, the team walked away with three new team records!

 

The Tucson J team is also an important part of our J community. This week, CEO + President, Todd Rockoff, returned from the JCC Association Mifgash Executive Leader forum in Atlanta with colleagues from across North America, Israel, Budapest, Moldova and Estonia! The group learned about  the JCC Association’s three centers of excellence: Talent, Jewish Peoplehood, and Innovation and Impact. They explored the power of storytelling, dove into real challenges and opportunities leaders are navigating, and talked about the need for both practical tools and deep connection within the movement. Here on campus, Tucson J leaders had the honor of meeting with Daria Pavlovschi, CEO of the Kedem Jacobs JCC in Kishnev, Maldova. The Tucson J has been in partnership with Kedem Jacobs, most recently bringing a delegation of teens to compete in last summer’s JCC Maccabi Games as part of Team Tucson. Daria explained the history of Jews in Moldova and the current landscape the work of her J exists in, before opening it up to the team for questions, conversation, and idea-sharing. 

 

As we head into Shabbat, we’re grateful for the many ways this week reminded us of the power of gathering, learning, and growing together. May the stories and connections we shared carry us into a restful Shabbat and inspire the week ahead. Shabbat Shalom. 

Reminders, Resources + Learning

Shavua Tov 20 Shevat 5786

Shavua Tov and a photo of Todd Rockoff, a man in a blue collared shirt, smiling

Shavua Tov

 

As we mark Jewish Disabilities Awareness, Acceptance, and Inclusion Month, we pause to affirm a truth that sits at the heart of Jewish life and at the heart of our work at the Tucson J: every person matters, and every person belongs.

 

At the Tucson J our service pledge is that we create community based on Jewish Values by providing the Highest quality programs and services in a safe and secure environment for ALL people of ALL ages.

 

Our tradition teaches Kol Yisrael arevim zeh bazeh all of Israel is responsible for one another. This is not a passive value. It is an active call to see one another fully, to create space for every individual, and to ensure that no one is left on the margins of our community.

 

We see this value powerfully reflected in the revelation at Mount Sinai. Jewish tradition teaches that when the Torah was given, everyone was present every soul, across generations, abilities, and lived experiences. Revelation did not belong only to the strongest voices or the most visible among us. It belonged to all. Sinai reminds us that inclusion is not a modern idea; it is foundational to who we are as a people.

 

At the Tucson J, this teaching guides our commitment to disability awareness, acceptance, and inclusion. It challenges us to continually ask:


Who is missing?


Who needs to be seen more clearly?


How can we design our programs, spaces, and culture so that people with disabilities are not simply accommodated, but genuinely welcomed, valued, and empowered?

 

This work shows up in our classrooms, our fitness and wellness programs, our arts and cultural offerings, and in how we support one another as staff and community members. Inclusion strengthens us all. When we build a community that reflects the fullness of human diversity, we live our Jewish values more deeply and more honestly.

 

I invite you to read our Tucson J Blog Post reflecting on this important month and the work we are committed to advancing together.

 

The JCC Movement is deeply committed to the value of inclusion, I invite you to read this Article from ejewishphilanthropy to learn more.

 

Music often expresses what words alone cannot. The Shalva Band, an extraordinary group of Israeli musicians with disabilities, embodies the power of inclusive community. Their moving performances including songs this Song from The Greatest Showman reminds us that difference is not a limitation, but a source of strength and beauty when embraced with intention.

 

From the Broadway stage, You Will Be Found from Dear Evan Hansen carries a message that resonates deeply with our Jewish values: that no one is invisible, that reaching out matters, and that community can be a lifeline. Its message echoes Kol Yisrael arevim zeh bazeh when we show up for one another, we create hope, dignity, and belonging.

 

Thank you for your partnership, your leadership, and your belief in the sacred worth of every human being. May this month strengthen our resolve to continue building a Tucson J where everyone is seen, supported, and celebrated today and every day.

 

With gratitude and shared responsibility,


Cochenu b’Achduteynu
 | כחינו באחדותינו | Our strength is in our unity.


Am Yisrael Chai 
| עם ישראל חי

 

Todd Rockoff

President + CEO, Tucson J